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Why Diets Make You Crabby
By Pauline Wallin, Ph.D
Author of "Taming Your Inner Brat: A Guide for Transforming
Self-defeating Behavior"


If you've ever been on a diet you know the feeling of
irritability that sets in after a few days. Nutrition
experts have attributed this feeling to a physical state of
deprivation, such as low blood sugar or dehydration.

While these conditions do have a definite effect on mood,
they don't tell the whole story. Consider the fact that you
are not ALWAYS crabby when hungry or thirsty, even though
your body may be in a state of deprivation.

Diet-related crabbiness stems not just from your body's
physical state, but also from mental fatigue. As you know,
it takes concentrated effort to change your eating habits.
That effort uses up mental strength, which gets depleted.

According to psychological research by Dr. Roy Baumeister
and his colleagues, mental strength operates similarly to
physical strength. Suppose, for example, you've just spent
the afternoon moving furniture. By the time you're done,
you don't have much strength left to play tennis.

In the same way, when you've spent the day exercising
self-control with food, you don't have much strength left
for controlling your behavior in other situations. Thus,
you're more likely to snap back at someone, lose your
patience easily, or overreact to minor frustrations.


** HERE'S A TYPICAL SCENARIO:

~ You start off the day feeling OK, determined to stay on
your diet. This takes some effort. If you've been used to
having a donut or sweet roll for breakfast, it requires
effort to eat something different. When you turn on the TV
or radio you're confronted with food ads designed to make
your mouth water. It takes effort to ignore these
temptations.

~ While you're trying to ignore the food ads, the "inner
brat" in the back of your mind notices every single one. It
nags at you: "I want that . . . I must have it." Your inner
brat's nagging intensifies the cravings. You become
involved in a struggle between short-term gratification
(your inner brat) and your long-term goal of losing weight.
This, too, takes effort.

~ As the day progresses and you continue to resist old
eating habits, your mental strength is gradually depleted.
This makes it harder for you to keep the lid on your
frustration or control your temper. In other words, your
inner brat gets the better of you.

~ It's no coincidence that most people end up overeating
later in the day, when their mental strength is at its low
point. By this time it seems like too much work to resist,
so you give into your cravings.


Is it any wonder that most diets fail? They don't have to.
To make sure that your moods don't sabotage your diet, here
are some tips:

1. Conserve your mental strength. Be selective in taking
on unnecessary stressors.

2. Stick to a routine as much as possible. This reduces
the number of decisions you have to make, and thereby saves
mental energy.

3. Set up your environment so that you avoid temptation:
~ Don't keep junk food at home or in your desk at work.
~ When food-related TV commercials come on, change the
channel.
~ At the grocery store avoid the aisles that hold snack
foods.

The less you come in contact with reminders of your old
eating habits, the less you will need to draw on your mental
strength. In these kinds of situations, the old saying,
"out of sight, out of mind" is truly applicable.

4. Watch out for negative self-talk. If you find yourself
thinking "This is awful" or "I can't stand this" you will
only magnify your bad mood. Instead say to yourself, "OK,
so I'm not at my best. Just wait it out for a little while
longer."

5. Take responsibility for your mood. If you do get
irritable, avoid picking arguments. If necessary, involve
yourself in a solitary physical task, away from other
people. Your bad mood will pass, you'll keep your inner
brat under control, and you'll emerge on the other side with
additional strength for tomorrow.

Pauline Wallin, Ph.D. is a psychologist in Camp Hill, PA,
and author of "Taming Your Inner Brat: A Guide for
Transforming Self-defeating Behavior" (Beyond Words
Publishing, 2001)

Visit http://www.innerbrat.com  for more information, and
subscribe to her free, monthly Inner Brat Newsletter.



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