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Bringing Romantic Fantasies to Life
by Nancy Fagan, M.S., TheDatingDoctor.com
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One of the most enjoyable parts of having a relationship is being
able to fulfill your romantic fantasies. You know, the one about
being swept off your feet by a knight in shining armor or
rescuing the damsel in distress?
Knights and damsels are a thing of the past, but romantic
fantasies still exist. A romantic fantasy is something important
to you that is missing in your love life. It’s what you think
about in your quiet time. If only you had it, your life would be
more complete.
In this article, you will learn how your romantic fantasies can
come true by learning how to make them happen. All dreams need
work to become realities. Whether you are in a relationship or
not, you can still formulate your plan of action to make your
romantic dreams come true.
Romantic fantasies are different for everyone. Each fantasy takes
on a life of its own with a unique feeling, tone, and theme. Some
people have simple fantasies; other people’s fantasies
are very detailed. One thing that is common with all romantic
fantasies is the element of desiring something that you don’t
already have in your life and that can only come through
a romantic partner.
Sharing Your Fantasy
Many times, both partners in a relationship have fantasies that
they would like to share with their partners, but they don’t
reveal them. Sharing a fantasy can make you vulnerable. Fantasies
also can evoke strong emotions. For these reasons, fantasies are
usually kept private. To present your secret thoughts to someone
can take courage.
One of the biggest barriers to sharing a fantasy with your
partner is erroneous assumptions. No one can read another
person’s mind. Yet it’s easy to come up with many reasons why you
think your partner would not want to live out a fantasy with you.
Telling Your Partner What You Want
How do you tell your partner about your romantic fantasies? It’s
easy. All you have to do is be clear about what you want and then
tell your partner. I know it sounds easier to do than it is, but
what do you have to lose? If you have someone who loves you, that
person may be more eager to make you happy than you think.
The first step to telling your partner about your romantic
fantasy is to think about what you want. Then write the fantasy
down in one sentence. Have your partner write his or her fantasy
down, too:
Do you see how easy that was? Now that you have written it down,
you should be clear about what you want. The next step is to
share the fantasy with your partner. Go ahead, he won’t bite! I
promise!
Nancy Fagan, M.S., best-selling author of "The Complete Idiot's
Guide to Romance" and "Desirable Men: How to Find Them" has
appeared on several hundred radio and television shows including
Ricki Lake, Men are from Mars/Women are from Venus, ABC News, NBC News, CBS News, The Berman & Berman Show, FOX News. She has been featured in most major newspaper in the United States and worldwide as well as regularly mentioned in the nation's top magazines such as Ladies' Home Journal ("Can this Marriage be Saved?"), Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Men's Health, Bride's, Seventeen, Women's Day, Family Circle, Women's Own, BBW, Complete Women and dozens of others.
Nancy's Best-Selling Books:
Desirable Men: How to Find Them
http://www.thedatingdoctor.com/desirable.htm
The Idiot's Guide to Romance
http://www.thedatingdoctor.com/idiotsbook.htm
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